Finding new kinds of pleasure behind the walls
A scientist who first wrote about the G-spot told us she regrets using the word, 'spot,' since it sends people on an often frustrating hunt for a ‘pleasure button’ that's supposed to feel good right away. Now, 30 years later, thousands of women have contributed their experiences, revealing detailed paths to G-Region pleasure.
When SUPER aroused, G-Regions can appear out of nowhere, swell, change textures and become sensitive. We’re not talking ‘wet’ aroused, we’re talking after lots and lots of warm-up, clitoral stimulation, internal stimulation or even orgasm.
“Mine is only there when I’m incredibly worked up. I used to think I just didn’t have one, because I had only looked for it prodding around with my fingers, not after lots of pleasurable sex.”
Angie
“Really warmed up”
When a G-Region is first rubbed, it can create a queasy, uncomfortable feeling before the pleasure begins to show. Many describe G-Region pleasure as so unlike other kinds of sexual pleasure that it can take some getting used to:
“For me, it was almost like I had to practice before my body recognised it as a point of pleasure.”
“When I found mine, I had such a I-have-to-pee feeling, I couldn’t imagine that ever feeling good. But I eventually learned to push past that and I’m so glad I did!"
Jessica
“My eventual discovery”
Many women follow the same progression when building G-Region pleasure. First - lots of sex so the G-Region ‘wakes up.’ Then, start with lighter, gentler touch against the G-region (for longer than you’d think.) Then, when the pleasure is coming through clearly, build to more pressure and/or speed (often more than you’d think.)
Massaging the area lightly, moving over the skin
Pressing a wider area (say, with multiple fingertips pushed together, penis head or thicker toy)
Really pressing and kneading into the tissue beneath the skin
Pressing a narrow area (say, with a fingertip or narrow-tipped toy)
This is great for women who have a G-region on the top wall. With one set of fingers inside putting upward pressure on the G-Region, another hand rests outside, above where pubic hair grows, and pushes down against the fingers inside.
There are lots of ways to make a penis, finger or toy to go directly upward into the top wall. See the Angling page for more ways to tilt the hips and accomplish this during penis-in-vagina or strap-on sex.
The G-Region can be "hooked” and pulled with fingers, a penis or a toy. This is a great way to increase pressure without feeling poked at. With a strong and stable-enough grasp, the hips and body move with the motion.
Two fingers take turns rubbing over the G-Region, creating what feels like one long, continuous motion. Kind of like the 'moonwalking' dance-move. When one finger has finished its stroke, the other finger has already begun the next stroke.
So think of the veins on your arm. They branch all over. And if you look at someone else’s arm, their veins are in different places than yours. The nerves that run back from the clitoris along the walls of the vagina are kind of like that. And while 67% of women who have discovered G-Region pleasure locate it on the top or just to one side of the top wall, the rest have them on the left or right side or bottom wall. A full 20% of women say their G-Region ‘moves’ from day to day.
48% of women have a G-Region on the top wall
19% of women have a G-Region slightly left/right of the top wall
9% of women have a G-Region on the side wall
16% of women have a G-Region on the bottom wall
20% of women say their G-Regions seem to move and are not consistently in one place.
1-knuckle in
2-knuckles in
as deep as a finger can go
deeper than a finger can go
